Dogs are living longer than ever thanks to better veterinary care, good nutrition and devoted owners who extend their hearts, homes and wallets to ensure comfort for their silvering canine friends. “People who are devoted to elderly animals are very special people,” said pain expert and veterinarian Lisa Moses. “They do the best they can to make their dogs’ lives better for however long they have.” The Boston Globe
Life with Dempsey, a blonde Labrador retriever with a soft round head, has changed for Kevan and Sheila Cunningham. The trio once hiked on conservation land near their home in Southeastern Massachusetts. They relaxed in front of the TV as Dempsey curled up in his own chair. They took vacations as a family and slept together in a big bed.
The Cunninghams got the dog when the Lab was 8 weeks old, and they still refer to Dempsey as their âbaby.â Fourteen years later the puppy is 98 in human years. Senior Dempsey, arthritic and failing, canât climb stairs anymore, jump up to the bed, or ride in the car. The beloved pooch has good days and bad.
âHeâs hanging in there,â says Cunningham, a judge with the Taunton District Court. âBut every day is a little bit different. He does like to get outside and watch the world and he barks occasionally. Itâs an elderly type of bark but he still manages to croak one out.â
Living with an elder of any species is heartbreaking, gratifying, uplifting, and patience-trying. Old dogs have an especially deep emotional pull when they peer up with their sweet, sad, trusting eyes.
âItâs so hard to live with an elderly dog because itâs like a roller coaster, up and down all the time,â says Dr. Lisa Moses, chief of the Pain Medicine Service at Angell Animal Medical Center. The subject is personal for Moses. She has a 16-year-old pit bull, Dora. âWhat they used to be able to do, what their life used to be like, itâs really hard to set that aside.â
Singer Fiona Apple made headlines last week for postponing the South American leg of her tour so she can stay by the side of her ailing, nearly-14-year-old pit bull, Janet. In an eloquent and lengthy letter to her fans, Apple explained how important this time with her beloved pet is: â. . . I know she is coming close to the time where she will stop being a dog, and start instead to be part of everything. Sheâll be in the wind, and in the soil, and the snow, and in me, wherever I go. I just canât leave her now, please understand. If I go away again, Iâm afraid sheâll die and I wonât have the honor of singing her to sleep, of escorting her out. . .â
The Globeâs Brian McGrory wrote a 2004 column, âThe Brown Eyes of Wisdom,â an elegy to his golden retriever Harry in the final act. The lead sentence is a weeper: âThey should come with a warning label, these creatures. They should come with a label that says youâre going to fall hopelessly in love, only to have your heart shattered before you could ever possibly prepare.â Kevan Cunningham keeps a clipping of the column close.
Old dogs touch a nerve â and the pocketbook. With an eye on burgeoning market possibilities of the senior set, canine product purveyors sell specially formulated kibble, beds, bowls, ramps to get up into the car, harnesses, diapers for incontinence, as well as various supplements, herbs and holistic remedies designed to cosset a senior dog through its last years. Doting owners find it difficult to resist the pitch for anything to help their four-legged family member.
The Cunninghams bought a large therapeutic bed for Dempsey. They changed to a food for senior dogs. On days he shuns the kibble, Sheila makes chicken soup. The Cunninghams lined the tile floor of their kitchen with rubber mats so Dempsey doesnât slip. They give him fish oil, glucosamine and chondroitin, supplements thought to assuage arthritis. Their veterinarian prescribed a pain medication, which seems to help. Yet, as with every dog, Dempsey has a simple go-to obsession having nothing to do with fancy or expensive: âBread,â says Kevan Cunningham. âAny kind of bread.â
Jon Comeau, product development specialist for dogs at Vermontâs Orvis Company, says his companyâs market expands with the aging dog population.
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Dempsey, a 14-year old blonde labrador retriever, rests on his special soft egg crate bed, located at the bottom of the stairs in his home. The bed is situated there because he can no longer climb the stairs, and he likes to hear his owners when they are upstairs.
âWe see it in the sales figures that come through,â he says. âTen years ago, we were selling products to keep dogs off the couch. Now weâre selling products to keep them on the couch.â
Beds are big sellers for elderly dogs with creaky joints. âWe have several versions of Tempur-Pedic and regular memory-foam beds,â says Comeau, who touts the advantages of rectangular beds for stiff dogs who wonât curl up because of the pain. Orvis, which claims to have sold the first dog bed in 1976, also sells absorbent covers for incontinence.
According to the latest statistics from a survey of pet owners by the American Pet Products Association (APPA), there are 78.2 million dogs in US households. The numbers give no breakout figures for how many senior dogs are out there but veterinarians and other experts anecdotally agree canines are living longer because of advances in veterinary care, better food, and heightened owner awareness about how to keep a dog healthier longer.
âWeâve seen a real change in the overall life span,â says Dr. Moses.
What is considered geriatric in a dog? The actuarial table depends on size. For small dogs, old age begin after 10. For bigger dogs, after age â8 or 9,â according to Moses, and for âgiant breeds (Great Dane, St. Bernard) at 5 or 6.â
Anne Shuhler of Watertown got a jolt when her veterinarian made an offhand remark while examining her âgenuine muttâ Sawyer.
âWhen Sawyer was 8, the vet said something like, âOh well, heâs a senior now.âââ Shuhler wasnât ready for the reckoning. âAt the age of 8 I hadnât really thought of him that way. I thought dogs were old at 12 to 15. I know they donât live forever but I hadnât moved him into that mental place.â
Since then, Shuhler has made her peace and now refers to Sawyer, a 10½-year-old with shades of German shepherd and collie, as her âold man.â The two hiked in the White Mountains of New Hampshire not long ago.
Admitting age is a human denial trigger, which owners can extend to un-self-conscious dogs. Cristen Underwood, director of marketing for the Quaker Pet Group, says the companyâs âSilver Tailsâ products for senior dogs didnât sell well at Petco, the pet store chain, because âpeople donât want to admit their dog is getting older. Itâs hard to make that change into buying senior pet products.â
Underwood says the Silver Tails line, which includes mats with bamboo charcoal inserts to warm furry bodies and infrared massagers, will now go into âboutiqueâ stores where dog keepers have more of a connection to the sales staff.
Yet, Rob Van Sickle, co-owner of the Polka Dog Bakery in Bostonâs South End and Jamaica Plain, says any marketing pitch for dogs through their owners can be foolhardy.
âI was just at a trade show in Las Vegas and people were walking around with white poodles that had been tie-dyed,â he says. âThere always seems to be a new marketing pitch.â Van Sickle calls the pet industry a âgiant marketing engine and everybodyâs always trying to build a better mousetrap.â
Unfortunately, no product will make an old dog live forever. And the owner of a senior dog ultimately confronts the grief of loss. Dr. Moses of Angell empathizes. âPeople who are devoted to elderly animals are very special people,â she says. âThey do the best they can to make their dogsâ lives better for however long they have.â
For Kevan Cunningham, itâs simple. He wants to do anything for Dempsey because the old dog gives everything back. âHe is so mellow and peaceful and just wants to please us,â says Cunningham. âHeâs still there to greet us with a tail wag.â